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善的蛻化  (英文請見下文) 中譯本

Dear all 

sorry i could not type chinese and no writing pad here.
perhaps
王子 or tall-man could do some translation 

actually 大素 was enjoying very much last sunday.
she was full of sense of humor.

she made jokes when i showed her the paper of the old-friend song for singing

she told me

1. when she was young, very poor, her father ran very fast (died early), so she had

   no chance for education

2. the words (in the song) knew her, she did not know the words 

after finished singing, when we wished to take back the song paper,

she insisted to keep it for herself.  she said though she could not read, she would

pass to her grand-daughter for reading. 

final i put  the song paper at the pocket of her shirt and she was very happy. 

she talked so much, continously.  in one hour she talked more than my talk in two days' time.
  ( I  apologise i was too quiet all the time).

she said she will go to the toilet (in her room) and requested me to keep/reserve her seat,
let nobody else occupy it. 

(is there a toilet in her room ??) 

she confessed she was fierce to other people and anger everyday.  Perhaps she would try to improve it.... 

so you all old-friends make 大素 change !  what a wonderful thing! 

keep going. 

i'll be proud of you all 

 

  善的蛻化  (中文譯本 )

親愛的各位老友記 

對不起,我不熟識中文輸入法,又沒有手寫板。
或者,請王子或高人替我做些翻譯。

上星期日的探訪大素其實十分喜愛及享受。
我發覺她原來是一個很有幽默感的人。

當我把老友歌聲處處聞的歌詞遞給她的時候,她還與我開玩笑,幽我一默呢;她說:她年紀還小的時候,家境很貧窮,父親早逝,所以她沒有機會接受教育的機會;「嗨!那些歌詞懂得她,而她就看不懂那些歌詞了。」

 然而,當大家唱完老友歌聲處處聞之後,正當我準備把歌詞收回之際,她突然反應很大,堅持要留下歌紙,她說要保留下來,之後好讓她的孫女給她解讀。最後,我把歌詞放回她的衣袋?,她馬上顯得很雀躍呢!

那天她說話滔滔不絕,在探訪的一個小時,她所說的話比我兩天加起來所講的還要多(抱歉我平時比較沉默少說話)。探訪中段,她說要回房間上廁所,並拜托我幫她看守她的座位,蠻害怕會給別人霸佔了的。(她房堹u的有如廁的地方嗎?)

她坦承她老是很兇的對待別人並很懊惱,她說會盡量改過來的........

我很高興看見各位老友記與大素經過一段時間的相處後,竟可令大素有一個好的轉變!
感覺太奇妙了
!!!

各位加油喔! 各位的努力令我同感自豪!

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